Addendum 2

things that should not happen:

Seti, the maid, should not tell me that I'm more beautiful than she is because I'm whiter than she is.

some bitch at the gym should not tell me that I shouldn't run because that's not how one loses weight.

said bitch should not touch me when explaining to me where she thinks I should lose weight.

people shouldn't confuse brown people for other brown people just because they are brown.

epithets that demean certain groups.

war.